Dancing Fluently with Life

Fluid and free dancing is fascinating. Fluidity and freedom in life has to do with the source of constraints that we decided at specific moments in our lives to apply on ourselves. Can you imagine a constrained or inhibited drop of water. It is fluidity and freedom that is behind the beauty of the image of the drop of water above.

Layers of imposed self-beliefs are always between us and our fluency. Having open discussions with a coach will support discovering the layers of self-beliefs that are behind the lack of fluency, and will provide an immediate feedback for all the life dancers that support them in digging into their blind spots exposing the first one of these layers. They are so much like layers of an onion as we discover the top and peel it off, the next one appears. It is fascinating process full of emotions and power.

Conversations at different situations that pose as stressful to fluency dancing would liberate the the fluency dancer and would allow him/her to inquire into their own scenarios.

While dancing with life we are all, whole and complete. We are not physically handicapped. We are physically complete and perfect. Our lack of fluency while dancing with life is a reflection of the decisions that we have taken early in our lives. Like I am stupid, I do not deserve to talk. Like I am ugly I do not deserve to be confident. It is amazingly powerful to find out your own sources of upsets and resistance. They stop you .... And completely controls your fluency and fluidity, causing you out of rhythm and out of fun

It is very similar to handling of Anger. Anger is a rejection of the present. Anger creates an alternative to the rejected present and takes away from you the possibility of choice. Once you choose to choose at the moment of anger between accepting the present and rejecting it. Then it is the choice of what I can do about the present. It is amazingly powerful technique to be present. So anger and stiffness are there when you are not present.

Dancing with life is about enthusiasm and persistence

Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence,
is the quality that most frequently makes for success.
--Dale Carnegie.

Why goal setters always suffer from lack of energy and enthusiasm and lack of desire to continue?

It is easy while in action to lose focus of the motive and the emotion behind the action which could turn the action into a boring automatic process.

Having the motive while its emotional drive is always there behind the action keeps us excited and always tuned to achieve the results that we can easily lose sight of. So keeping the emotional drive there focused with action is the seed of persistence. Persistence is the magic fountain of success.

What are the motives that keep us going? The answer to this question can turn your life into a very vibrant and active one. Most of us we do not spend enough time to investigate what keywords or I call them contexts that turn us on and what turn us off. Logic has nothing to do with these keywords.

Dancing with life is either fun or pain... you choose!

Dancing with life is what each one of us doing and being at every moment of our lives. Dancing is beautiful when you are totally out there with your dancing partner. When you have LIFE as your dancing partner, it is fantastic. You can have everything or you can have nothing. You can live the life you choose. You create the dance quality and reward. You can get exactly what you request from your dance partner, if nothing or even everything. It could be so embarrassing and stressful, and it could be so much fun. It could be so fluid and dynamic, and it could also be so stiff and hurtful. It is our choice of the way of being at the moment and the what we do on top of this way of being that determines the quality and the fun we have with our dancing round with life. I can see life as a very beautiful partner or a very ugly one. It is also my choice, and I get exactly what I choose. No one can take my choice even if I am locked up. My world and my life are mine, how I see them and how I react towards them are my own issues that no one can take them from me. Here I am inviting everyone to choose the beautiful life to dance with, and to be the best fluid dancer he or she can be. Enjoy your dance